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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "What is the Cause of Gender Incongruence"
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description: "It's the hormones, baby."
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "Disorders of Sex Development: Gender is not Chromosomal"
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description: "DNA is more what you'd call guidelines, than actual rules."
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# Conclusion
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "Diagnosing Gender Dysphoria"
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description: "It's clinical."
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fecha: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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título: "Cómo se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Bioquímica"
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descripción: "Los muy reales factores biológicos de la Disforia de Género que causan perturbación mental."
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Cuerpo previo: '_declaración'
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title: "Cómo se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Bioquímica"
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description: "Los muy reales factores biológicos de la Disforia de Género que causan perturbación mental."
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La **Despersonalización** es una desconexión de tu propio cuerpo, inhabilidad de creer que la persona que ves en el espejo eres realmente tú. Sientes que estás viendo a alguien más en tu cuerpo. Puedes sentir que no te importa lo que le pase a tu cuerpo, tener desinterés por cambios en tu peso o en mejorar tu condición física, porque no eres dueñx de ese vehículo carnoso que te transporta por tu vida.
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Zinnia Jones [da la mejor descripción de la Despersonalización](https://web.archive.org/web/20190406141617/https://genderanalysis.net/2017/06/depersonalization-in-gender-dysphoria-widespread-and-widely-unrecognized/):
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Zinnia Jones [da la mejor description de la Despersonalización](https://web.archive.org/web/20190406141617/https://genderanalysis.net/2017/06/depersonalization-in-gender-dysphoria-widespread-and-widely-unrecognized/):
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- Un sentimiento de desapego o alienación de tus propios pensamientos, sentimientos, o cuerpo: “Sé que tengo sentimientos, pero yo no los siento”
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- Sentirse divididx en dos partes, con una moviéndose y participando en el mundo, y la otra observando quietamente: “Está este cuerpo que camina y alguien que solo mira”
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fecha: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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título: "Cómo se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Física"
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descripción: "La incomodidad corporal es solo una de las muchas formas en las que se manifiesta la Disforia de Género."
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title: "Cómo se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Física"
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description: "La incomodidad corporal es solo una de las muchas formas en las que se manifiesta la Disforia de Género."
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prevCaption: Euforia de Género
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fecha: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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título: "Como se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Social"
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descripción: "Pronombres y nombre muerto y generización, oh vaya."
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title: "Como se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Social"
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description: "Pronombres y nombre muerto y generización, oh vaya."
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título: "Como se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Societal"
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descripción: "Porque un rol es un rol, una carga es una carga, y es una pesada carga vivir en el rol equivocado."
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title: "Como se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Disforia Societal"
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description: "Porque un rol es un rol, una carga es una carga, y es una pesada carga vivir en el rol equivocado."
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prevCaption: Disforia Social
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fecha: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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título: "Cómo se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Euforia"
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descripción: "Para que haya sombras, debe de haber luz."
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title: "Cómo se manifiesta la Disforia de Género: Euforia"
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description: "Para que haya sombras, debe de haber luz."
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prevCaption: Historia de la Disforia de Género
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nextCaption: Disforia Física
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fecha: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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título: "Una Breve Historia de la Disforia de Género"
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descripción: "Los orígenes de la Disforia de Género y su significado actual."
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "Una Breve Historia de la Disforia de Género"
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description: "Los orígenes de la Disforia de Género y su significado actual."
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prevCaption: ¿Qué es el Género?
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nextCaption: Euforia de Género
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nextCaption: Euforia de Genero
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# Una Breve Historia de la Disforia de Género
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description: "I don't regret the things I have done, I regret the things I didn't do when I had the chance."
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prevCaption: Presentational Dysphoria
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "Impostor Syndrome, but make it Trans"
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description: "I don't regret the things I have done, I regret the things I didn't do when I had the chance."
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fecha: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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título: "La Biblia de la Disforia de Género"
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descripción: "Un clavado a las multitudes de formas en que se manifiesta la disforia de género y lo que significa ser transgénero."
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title: "La Biblia de la Disforia de Género"
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description: "Un clavado a las multitudes de formas en que se manifiesta la disforia de género y lo que significa ser transgénero."
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "Managed Dysphoria: Gender in Disguise"
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description: "I don't regret the things I have done, I regret the things I didn't do when I had the chance."
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "How Gender Dysphoria Manifests: Presentational Dysphoria"
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description: "Hoodies and sweatpants never go out of style."
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título: "¿Qué es el Género?"
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descripción: "¿Cómo definimos el concepto de Género, y como se diferencia del sexo?"
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title: "¿Qué es el Género?"
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nextCaption: La Historia de la Disforia de Género
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "How Gender Dysphoria Manifests: Sexual Dysphoria"
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description: "Sometimes a Cigar doesn't want to be smoked."
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This dysphoria may be so significant that they find themselves taking a sexual identity that they don't actually connect with. It is not unheard of for a trans person to realize after coming out that they never actually felt a connection to the sexual orientation that they had identified with previously, but were rather using it as a way to feel less dysphoric in their sex lives.
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Some trans women, for example, identified as gay men pre-transition out of a desire to have a partner that treats them like women during sex, but find themselves to actually be lesbians once that demand is lifted. Others may attempt to live as gay men, but find that the role doesn't fulfill them because they know their partners see them as men.
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# The Coercive Male Gaze
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æææ<div class="cw"><p><strong>Authors Note</strong>: This specific type of sexual dysphoria is difficult to explain in generalist terms, so I am going to take a departure here and write about this from my own personal experience. The following is presented from my perspective as a binary trans woman. As such, this may not be completely relatable to all trans people. My apologies.</p></div>æææ
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There is a saying that is very well known in sapphic circles: "Do I want to be her, or be with her?"
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It can be hard to tell the difference between sexual attraction and envy, especially when you're a closeted trans teenager. Our entire society is built upon heterosexuality, it is simply the cultural default, to the point that even pre-pubescent children are barraged with messages about male to female attraction. Consequently, interest in aspects of the lives of the "opposite" sex is almost always immediately perceived as being sexual attraction.
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What is the result of this? Usually... shame. Trans children often internalize their view of their peers based on their true gender, and one does not objectify their equals. Thus the child is motivated to hide those interests out of a desire to not be seen engaging in that kind of sexual objectification. This is even further compounded if the child has been raised in a setting with very strict moral codes, such as in a conservative religious upbringing.
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Growing up as a closeted trans teen in an evangelical Christian household, I knew that if I was ever caught looking at women in what was seen as a sexual manner, I would be punished. I knew if I was ever found handling women's apparel, there would be a lot of very awkward questions which I was not prepared to answer. This posed a very serious problem for me, as someone with a strong fascination with women's apparel, particularly lingerie.
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There is [a Simpsons clip where Moe Szyslak is put on a lie detector test](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iQGwrK_yDEg), and by the end of the test he has confessed that he will be spending the night ogling the women in the intimates section of the Sears catalog. The entire crux of the scene, and the source of the comedy, is the shame that is cast on Moe for engaging in this desperate act of objectification. I grew up knowing that this is how I would be perceived for my interest in women's clothing.
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Out of shame and fear, I did everything I could to hide this passion, because I simply could not bear for someone to view me like the teenage boys who masturbate to any material they get their hands on. What made this fear even worse was that I *also believed* that my interest was sexual.
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When you see the world through a duck shaped lens, everything looks vaguely like a duck. The only framework I had been given to understand my interest in women was through sexual desire, and thus every feminine interest I had became warped into a sexual desire. My wish to be a bride morphed into a bridal kink, my desire to have a child warped into an interest in pregnancy porn, and my own need to be a girl was redirected into a transformation fetish.
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But on top of all of this, I was *terrified* to be seen expressing legitimate sexual interest in other women. I had male friends who were notorious rubberneckers and slack jawed gawkers; one of my former employers had an awful habit of leering at attractive women when we were out to lunch, which made me very uncomfortable to be seen with him.
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I could not stand to be associated with that male gaze. Even around the most beautiful women, I would avoid even looking at them, because I did not want to be seen as the kind of person that stares at women. I did not want to be seen as a predator.
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This is the coercive male gaze: [compulsory heterosexuality](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compulsory_heterosexuality) placed upon closeted trans women due to heteronormative ideologies. A cognitive dissonance that causes intense guilt and shame surrounding appreciation of ones peers and gendered interests.
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Once you remove this male framework – once one is able to perceive themselves as female and accept these interests and observations are valid – that shame and guilt completely evaporates. Even when the interest is sapphic in nature and genuinely includes sexual desire, it is no longer tainted with this layer of objectification. I am able to appreciate the femininity and the beauty of my female peers without judgments, I can compliment them without fearing being perceived as a creep, or having my intentions misinterpreted.
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It was a dysphoria I could not possibly have put into words until after it had finally been relieved. I was even more relieved as I began to integrate into queer womens spaces and came to realize that _women are exactly as thirsty as men are_, we're just (usually) much more respectful about it. It was a release of guilt that I didn't even know I was carrying.
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date: "2020-01-26T20:41:55.827Z"
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title: "Treating Gender Dysphoria"
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description: "Transition is the cure."
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